Aryana Libris

Author : Reishus Sandra
Title : Oh, no He's Just Like My Father Escape the Parent Trap & have the Realionship YOU Want
Year : 2007

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Get ready, because what you’re about to read will change your life. Whether you’re single, married, or somewhere in between, it’s important to know and fully understand how and why you make the choices you do in your selection of romantic relationship partners. The surprise is that, much of the time, we unconsciously allow our past relationships with our parents to make our choices. Of course, that’s the last thing anyone wants to hear, and when they do, they usually say, “Maybe someone else did, but not me.” The vast majority of people would strongly defend the conviction that their parents had nothing to do with their choice of partner. This common belief is usually expressed as “Of course, we make our own choices. Our parents aren’t arranging our marriages like in the old days! I looked and looked and rejected lots of people who didn’t meet my criteria until I found what I was looking for.” Sure, most of us might have shopped around for The One, but what we don’t often realize is that our choices were limited because we were subconsciously looking for a person who was uncannily like Mom or Dad. That “love is blind” saying certainly holds true and goes undetected on our “He’s the One” radar. If you believe you’ve chosen someone who doesn’t look or act like your dad, you just might wake up one morning with the realization, “Oh, my gosh! Last night at dinner my husband fl irted with my girlfriend the whole time. I thought I was the only one he used his seductive ways on and I was special to him, but apparently not. Mom divorced Dad for the affairs he had, and here I am looking at that same possibility in my marriage. Am I headed down the same path, and how did I end up with what seems to be the same situation? How did I ever get here?” When you’re deciding who Mr. Right is, you don’t even realize you are re-creating a relationship that might date back to when you were growing up. This book takes you beyond the obvious similarities you might see between your father and your partner, such as looks, career, personality, level of sensitivity, or the conviction that the toilet paper should roll up or down. Take a deep breath, because we’re going deeper to fi nd the similarities that are more diffi cult to recognize and are at the heart of the parent trap. With this new information, there’s a big shocker—realizing that you can’t always depend on chemistry to make good decisions. After the initial passion has cooled, many women realize (sometimes too late) that they’ve married their father, and many men fi gure out that the woman they’ve wed is Mom in disguise. This book will show you the whys and hows of mate selection, as well as how to escape the parent trap and make real, unhindered choices without the momand- dad baggage. If you’re already in a relationship, great! Now you’ll have the information you need to change your self and your relationship for the better or to move on to better things. Escaping the parent trap is all about fi nding options. It may come as news or you might have fi gured it out already, but building and maintaining relationships are among the hardest things we do in life. We all want wonderful ones in which we can be who we are and have the other person respect and honor that. Now you can get on the road toward this goal. ...